My In-Laws Are Obsessed with Me – Chapter 57
The wedding day had finally arrived, and I couldn’t have been more nervous. I had never met my in-laws, and I knew they were very traditional. I was worried that they wouldn’t approve of me, especially since I was from a different culture.
I tried to calm my nerves by taking deep breaths and reminding myself that I had found the love of my life. My fiance had always been supportive, and I knew he would be there for me no matter what.
Meeting the In-Laws
When I finally met my in-laws, I was surprised by how welcoming they were. They greeted me with warm hugs and told me how happy they were to have me as their daughter-in-law. I was relieved, but I still couldn’t shake the feeling that they were watching my every move.
As the day went on, I noticed that my in-laws were paying a lot of attention to me. They asked me about my family and my culture, and they seemed genuinely interested in getting to know me. I was flattered, but I also felt a little bit of pressure to be perfect.
The Obsession Begins
After the wedding, my in-laws continued to be very attentive. They called me every day, and they often invited me over for dinner. At first, I was happy to spend time with them, but I started to feel overwhelmed by their attention.
My in-laws would often comment on my appearance, and they would tell me how much they loved my clothes and my hair. They would also give me unsolicited advice about my relationship with their son. I started to feel like I couldn’t do anything right, and I was constantly worried about disappointing them.
The Turning Point
One day, my in-laws came over for dinner. They brought me a beautiful dress, and they told me how much they wanted me to wear it to their son’s birthday party. I was hesitant, but I didn’t want to disappoint them. So I put on the dress, and I went to the party.
When I arrived at the party, I realized that my in-laws had invited all of their friends and family. I was immediately overwhelmed by the attention. Everyone was staring at me, and they were all commenting on my dress. I felt like I was on display, and I couldn’t wait to leave.
Setting Boundaries
After that party, I decided that I needed to set some boundaries with my in-laws. I told them that I appreciated their love and support, but I needed some space. I told them that I would still visit them, but I needed to be able to live my own life.
My in-laws were disappointed, but they respected my decision. They started to give me more space, and I started to feel more comfortable around them.
Tips for Dealing with Obsessive In-Laws
If you are dealing with obsessive in-laws, here are a few tips:
- Set boundaries. Let your in-laws know that you need some space, and that you need to be able to live your own life.
- Talk to your partner. Let him or her know what is going on, and ask for his or her support.
- Don’t be afraid to say no. If your in-laws ask you to do something that you don’t want to do, don’t be afraid to say no.
- Take care of yourself. Make sure to take care of your own physical and mental health. Spend time with friends and family, and do things that make you happy.
Conclusion
Dealing with obsessive in-laws can be difficult, but it is important to remember that you are not alone. There are many people who have gone through the same thing, and there is help available.
If you are struggling to deal with your in-laws, please reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist. They can provide support and guidance, and they can help you to develop strategies for dealing with your in-laws.
FAQ
**Q:** What is the best way to deal with obsessive in-laws?
**A:** The best way to deal with obsessive in-laws is to set boundaries. Let your in-laws know that you need some space, and that you need to be able to live your own life.
**Q:** What should I do if my in-laws don’t respect my boundaries?
**A:** If your in-laws don’t respect your boundaries, you need to talk to your partner. Let him or her know what is going on, and ask for his or her support.
**Q:** Is it normal to have obsessive in-laws?
**A:** Obsessive in-laws are not uncommon. However, it is important to remember that you are not alone. There are many people who have gone through the same thing, and there is help available.
Are you interested in the topic of dealing with obsessive in-laws?
If you are interested in learning more about the topic of dealing with obsessive in-laws, here are some resources:
- The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE
- The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: 1-800-799-SAFE
- The National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE
